There’s a story making the rounds on Redditabout people getting those metallic “bejeweled butt plugs” all the way into their asses and needing pretty intense intervention to get them out, ranging from partners pulling them out with their fingers (the unfun kind of double penetration) to actual surgery in a hospital (only fun for a very select few). The blame, apparently, is the fact that the base of these toys is rarely wider than the widest party of the head, which is pretty damning, and that lubed metal is slipperier than lubed silicone. So here are the operative questions: Are metallic bejeweled butt plugs safe or not so much? Are silicone bejeweled butt plugs any safer? Are there any safe bejeweled butt plug options out there? The world isn’t going to stop being obsessed with sparkly butt toys any time soon, so we’re going to need to find a way to do it safely.Īs you've surely heard, the conservative Supreme Court majority plans to overturn Roe v. After you’ve found and vetted a few good candidates, get yourself some airline tickets and a hotel room and have those drinks in a bar that a colleague, a fan, or your father-in-law is unlikely to walk into. You also have the option of creating a profile in a city you visit regularly but don’t live in, HUSH. Again, there’s no way to fully eliminate the risk, but at a certain point you have to trust your gut and take a risk. To minimize your risk of being spotted and outed on the apps, HUSH, don’t post face pics and only share them after you’ve established-to the best of your ability-the person you’re talking to isn’t a bot, a pic collector, or an extortionist. A friend or a relative or a coworker who spots your wife in a bar with a strange man-or in the lobby of a hotel or on her way into your apartment-is likelier to cause you headaches than one of your fellow perverts online. (“Wait, why are you on Feeld?”) And most people on hookup apps aren’t bad actors, HUSH, but fundamentally decent people like you and your wife, i.e., singles and couples looking for a little fun, not for an opportunity to hurt anyone. The threat of mutually assured destruction-if they gossip about you, you’ll gossip about them-is usually enough to restrain bad actors, as is the threat of the obvious follow-up question. While there’s no way to eliminate your risk of being recognized on an app, HUSH, anyone who spots you on Feeld looking for extracurricular dick was on Feeld looking for and/or offering up a little extracurricular dick of their own. But hookup/threesome/swinger apps, while perceived as sleazier, are a safer bet for a couple like you and your wife. There are lots of dating apps for people and/or couples looking for casual sex and/or kinky sex (Feeld, 3Somer, #Open, et al), and lots of people-single and partnered-looking for casual and/or kinky sex on regular dating apps (Tinder, OKCupid, Christian Mingle, et al).
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